so the lessons learnt from this flingationship, is that
1. in a fling, i should never ever let my guard down. even though it appears the other party might've been.
2. i mustn't build up any expectations whatsoever.
3. the make up of regina lee is such that she is not capable of having flings. i get too attached (even for short spans), and find it hard to compartmentalise.
that said, it was a good learning experience, even though i wish we had more lessons.