so it seems the father has onset of kidney failure.
toxicity levels of 7 and above = dialysis or transplant.
he's currently at level 5.
if he doesn't do anything, and levels hit beyond 7, he may go into a coma..
so basically the only option for him is a transplant - they're not too keen on dialysis cos apparently once you start dialysis, it's more complicated to transplant later on in life.
so here's the deal:
the donor hierarchy goes like this (if there's a match)
1. sibling
2. blood children in descending order ie oldest to youngest.
he's not gonna ask his siblings, cos there're their families and spouses who come into the picture.
so basically, i'm 1st in line.
kinda like heir to the throne...
how lovely. joy.
now as i was telling maine, this wouldnt be too difficult had my father been a good boy.
but he wasn't. and perhaps iv not entirely forgiven him for what he's done to us. to me.
plus how bad is it that the 1st thing that came to mind when i got the news was 'HAHA! KARMA!!'
im either never gonna have a girlfriend, or im gonna die alone. or both.
that is MY karma.
hahahahahaaaa!!!
life decisions eh.
no one can make em for you.
oh well. there's lots of time to think anyways, plus i may not even be a suitable candidate...
in the meantime... lots of considerations to be made.
