the fear of rejection or disinterest.. is... insurmountable

you try not to think about it, but.. i guess as long as you're on 2 completely different continents, it's impossible to think otherwise.
especially when she's sad, and depressed, and there's bare minimum communication.

how can i help? do i help? do i continue trying to give support?
or do i just sit around and wait for her to make the moves when she's ready?